Can women over 60 wear red lipstick? Yes, and we show you how


There was a time when most of us could wear red lipstick without hesitation.  Firm jawlines and plump lips all lend themselves to the perfect red lip.  But over time lips lose their collagen and become thinner, jaw lines become less defined, and those vertical lines around our lips become more pronounced.  That’s when it behooves our look to draw attention to the eyes and less to the lower parts of our face.  A nude lip look is youthful.

That said, the red lipstick look can be a real stunner for every day as long as you know what you’re doing with your clothes and the rest of your makeup.  And we’re coming up to the holiday season.  Nothing says vavoom like a perfect red lip. Not any old red lipstick will do though. To look like Helen Mirren on the red carpet, you have to do some red lipstick homework.  Fortunately, your homework consists of reading this article.

Follow these six simple guidelines for wearing red lipstick and you’ll look glamorous and “with it” for the holidays.

 1.  Know your skin’s undertone

This is a confusing concept for most people because it is not intuitive.  If you have pink or red undertones, it would seem to make sense that you have a warm complexion, right?  No, you actually have a cool complexion.  Skin tone is not to be confused with skin undertone.  You can have the same skin tone as someone else but have a different undertone.

Undertones are broken down like this:

  • Cool complexions: pink, red or bluish undertones. If you have a tendency to red veins, rosacea, or if you blush easily or sometimes have a florid look, you have a cool complexion, even though it would seem that the opposite would be true.
  • Warm complexions: yellow, peachy or golden undertones. If you tan easily, have an olive complexion, seldom blush and do not have red capillaries visible in your skin, you have a warm complexion, even though it would seem that the opposite would be true.
  • Neutral complexions: a mix of warm and cool undertones.

So why is this important to know when choosing a red lipstick?  Because red lipsticks come with undertones as well, either blue or orange.  As a general rule, blue undertoned red lipsticks flatter cool complexions and orange undertoned red lipsticks flatter warm complexions.  Neutral complexions can usually wear either blue or orange undertoned red lipsticks.  When we get to the section on choosing your perfect red, we identify which ones are orange-based and which are blue-based.

2.  Mattify your lips before application

Younger women can apply their red lipstick to a bare lip without giving it a second thought throughout the evening.  That’s because they do not have the vertical lines that we in the Blue Hare group tend to have.  To preserve your perfect red lip without the awful “clown mouth” look appearing around ten o’clock, you need to use a primer before you apply the lipstick.  These primers provide a matte base for your lipstick and prevent it from migrating into the vertical lines around your mouth.  They also help your lips to stay hydrated.   There is a wide variety to choose from. We like Anastasia of Beverly Hills Lip Primer; Ulta Lip Primer; Elizabeth Arden Advanced Lip Fix Cream; and NYX Cosmetics Lip Primer Nude.

3.  Apply your red lipstick like the pros

When we all had perfectly defined lip lines, swiping lipstick on from the tube worked fine.  But now we need a defined lip line to help pull off the red lipstick look.  Even though the lipstick you choose may come to a point, it’s not precise enough to use as a lip liner.  Here is the way to get a perfect defined lip:

  • Choose a lip pencil in the exact color of the red lipstick you choose from the ones below. The sales consultant at the beauty counter where you buy the lipstick will be able to help you.  Do not go lighter or darker with the lip liner—the color needs to be an exact match!  This is important.  People should not be able to tell you are wearing lip liner—only that you have a very precise, well defined lip line and you can only do this with a pencil.
  • Apply your lipstick in a magnifying mirror. Notice we didn’t say apply your lip liner first.  You apply the lipstick as close to your lip line as you can.  Then, with a very sharp point on your lip liner, draw a line around the natural boundaries of your lip line.  (The lipstick will help the liner to flow smoothly).
  • If your lips are thin, use your lip liner to draw a line just outside the line of your natural lips. We almost hesitate to suggest this, since you really have to know what you are doing to pull this off and not look like the Joker (gone wild) or Cruella de Ville.  If you are immediately appalled at the results, or if the people around you get funny looks on their faces and avert their eyes, pull the plug on this look.  But if you are told how nice you look without any signs of deception, carry on.

4.  Choose a classic

Remember it’s not just the lipstick—it’s the whole “red lipstick experience”.  If you are going to go red, you can’t do it with a cheap, plastic-topped, drugstore variety lipstick.  You don’t want to have to quickly and furtively swipe your lipstick on your lips, hoping no one will notice.  The red way is with a flourish, making sure that everyone around you takes in the beauty of your lipstick’s magnificent case.

Is there a difference between the drug store variety red lipsticks and the classics that we are about to introduce you to, some of which eat up the better part of $100?  Actually there is and it’s all in the ingredients, according to Danny Griffin, vice president of Product Development at Kevyn Aucoin.  “The biggest difference between a more expensive versus a less expensive product will always be the quality and uniqueness of ingredients used,” says Griffin. “Today you’ll find so many formulas with exotic butters and extracts that make certain lipsticks stand out from the crowd.”

Cheaper ingredients are often synthetic or mass-produced; more luxe versions of those are more expensive for a number of reasons, including the costs of harvesting, preservation, and importing. It’s kind of like buying an organic salad versus three take-out burgers, both for $12.  You get more food with the take-out but is it the kind of food that you want?  For example, instead of beeswax or perhaps sumac wax (harvested from Japanese sumac tree berries), a lower-priced lipstick may include affordable mineral oils and waxes. And the cheaper ingredients will tend to break down faster and not last as well—sort of like wearing linen versus a cheap polyester that picks and pills.  That’s not to say that there aren’t great drug store lipsticks for everyday—but if this is your red lipstick night, go for the glamour.

We selected five red lipstick classics (quality and presentation) that will spark your look, whether it’s with bejewelled clutches or skinny jeans and boots.

Tube of red lipstick Rouge Louboutin in Velvet Matte

Rouge Louboutin Velvet Matte, Christian Louboutin

We start with the best first.  If you want to own a Louboutin, but can’t afford his shoes, these lipsticks are an option.  Has there ever been a more regal looking, jaw-dropping red lipstick?  This screams queen for a night from every aspect: its “lipstick as art” case, its crowning glory cap and its smooth-as-silk formula in a mix of warm and cool undertones (perfect for neutral, cool or warm complexions).  In the words of the beauty look book, “I am pleased to report Louboutin has taken lipstick to another level, not just with the packaging, but also with an incredible formula.” According to the Louboutin website, these are made in the USA, paraben-free, mineral oil-free, DEA-free and Phthalate-free.  Yes, $90 is steep but imagine the looks you’ll get when you casually apply your perfect red as if this is what all your lipsticks look like.  Rouge Louboutin Velvet Matte; Christian Louboutin; $90 at us.christianlouboutin.com and major department stores.

Tube of Tom Ford red lipstick "Cherry Lush"

Cherry Lush, Tom Ford

Tom Ford is a man of many talents: turnaround architect of the slumping Gucci brand, clothes designer in his own name, purveyor of a top-quality line of makeup and more recently, movie director.  His lipsticks have become cult favorites.  Cherry Lush is a true blue-based vibrant red shade with hints of pink, perfect for cool complexions.  This is what Stella Bugbee’s post on The Cut, entitled “Testing the World’s Most Luxurious Lipsticks” had to say about Tom Ford’s Cherry Lush.  “Everything about this lipstick makes me happy, from the sharp black-and-gold canister to the rounded tip of the lipstick itself. The angle of the slice makes outlining the lips easy, and even magically turns my thin upper lip into a blooming rose. Applying the rich, creamy pigment evokes a fifties movie vixen, which seems intentional given how obsessed Ford is with vintage cinema and glamour girls of yore.”  Cherry Lush; Tom Ford; $54 at tomford.com, Sephora, and major department stores.

Tube of Guerlain lipstick "Rouge Kiss"KissKiss (325) Rouge Kiss, Guerlain

This is a warm coral with a luminous finish, perfect for warm complexions.  The case is solid and sophisticated and the cap drops on with a satisfying click, the way doors close with hardly any effort on high-end cars.  This is what Reika says in her Front Row Beauty Blog about Rouge Kiss: “325 Rouge Kiss is a warm translucent watermelon red in semi-gloss finish. I love a sophisticated bright red that brightens up my complexion, and the hydrating formula makes my lips appear more plumped and youthful looking. The pigmentation is on the rich side for a sheer lipstick – it applies to its true color with a translucent glossy finish in only 2 swipes, and you can always apply more layers to build up the opacity. It lasts for 4-5 hours on me, and it fades into a lip stain after drinking and eating.”  KissKiss 325 Rouge Kiss; Guerlain; $37 at guerlain.com and  major department stores.

Tube of Dolce & Gabana red lipstick "Devil"

Devil 620, Dolce & Gabbana

Dolce & Gabbana’s Devil is a classic red lipstick.  The case doesn’t quite have the pizzazz of the others but it’s a solid, heavy and understated gold.  Devil is described as an “orange red.” It’s a medium-dark, warm-toned red with orange undertones and a satin finish, perfect for warm complexions.  Read Aaziya Shafi’s review of Devil in her blog, Discover the Best Version of Yourself.  “A single swipe gives full coverage, opaque color payoff and a satin finish. It lasted for around 5 hours on my lips and left a beautiful stain behind. It didn’t bleed or feather on me and I find it really hydrating on my lips. This shade works very well with warmer skin tones.”  Devil 620; Dolce & Gabbana; $34 at major department stores.

Tube of Dior red lipstick "999"Rouge Dior 999, Christian Dior

While not over-the-top expensive, 999 is considered by makeup artists and stylists to be the “celebrity red” because of its cult following in Hollywood.  This is not blue red or an orange red, according to one reviewer, “it is just a true red, so it would suit all undertones.”  Says another reviewer: “Despite my being in my 60s, there’s nothing old lady about this red lipstick. Just the opposite—it’s very modern. Dior: you’d better NEVER discontinue this!”  Rouge Dior 999; Dior; $43 at dior.com and major department stores.

5.  Tone down the rest of your makeup

When you wear red lipstick, all eyes will be on your lips, and that is the intended effect.  Keep eye makeup minimal—a neutral shadow and mascara should be enough.

Jennifer Lopez wearing two different makeup looksA light brow and softly blushed cheeks also will help carry off your red lipstick look.  Of course, it helps if you have young and flawless skin (which Blue Hares do not) but you can still pull off that polished but not overstated look for the rest of your makeup.  See how Jennifer Lopez played up her eyes for the nude lipstick look but downplayed them when she wore red lipstick.

And then of course, there is the ultimate Blue Hare woman, Helen Mirren, showing us all how to wear red on the red carpet. Notice her eyes are subtly made up and don’t take attention away from that flattering red lipstick.

 

 

 

6.  Keep the red lip look for when you are feeling confident and well turned out

The garish lights of the produce department are not the most flattering to the red lipstick look and somehow, red lipstick does not look quite right with an outdoorsy winter jacket over sweat pants.

Woman in French striped t-shirt and rolled up jeans wearing bright red lipstick

However, that’s not to say you can’t sport red lips for everyday as well as your glamorous holiday night—you just need to have the right attitude and the right look. The bottom line: Make sure you are wearing the lipstick and it’s not wearing you.

Look at how red lipstick dresses up a pair of rolled up jeans, flat shoes and striped tee.  Her look would be so much blander without that glorious pop of perfect red on her lips.

Lucky for us, this season’s jewel tones look good with the red lip look so we can look vibrant throughout the gray days of winter.

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This article was previously published on December 7, 2017

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Photo of Helen Mirren from Telegraph.com


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